Friday, August 21, 2009

“He liked to observe emotions; they were like red lanterns strung along the dark unknown of another's personality, marking vulnerable points.”

All personalities are different. While there are things that correlate personalities and create likenesses between people, no two people are the same. I somewhat believe in astrology, not necessarily daily horoscopes, but more in terms of your birth year or month or day and how that affects you the individual mainly because all the stara collided at a given moment and your were born thus creating a complex you would live with the rest or your life. And we do all have a complex, they define aspects of our psyche. Because of these reason's not everybody has to get a long. We are not 5 year old's in kindergarten where the teachers are trying to make us share and play with each other or sticking us in front of the sad face when we are mean to the girl that stole your giant pencil or making us buy valentines day cards for the entire class when in actuality I hate selfish Susan and smelly Stan! But selfish Susan and smelly Stan also had friends, I just preferred not to speak to them. And really, what is so wrong about that! We all have personality styles that we gravitate towards. For me, I prefer the slightly awkward, inappropriate d'bags who underneath everything are nice people. The reason being that I like these people, they say how they feel, they push limits and push boundaries as see what they can get away with. These people dont hold themselves back, they take what they want and break rules and apologize for it later. I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not with them, they tend to see right through your buillshit and immediately call you out on it! Who wouldn't want friends like this! But if you are in their inner circle, and you know the real them, you realize they are genuine, kind, and sometimes the biggest softies ever! And quite frankly, if these type of people don't fit in the persona you prefer to be around then dont be around them, and if you can't understand why they do the things that they do, do not deem it necessary to speak negatively of them!

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